After attending Gregory’s lecture, I remembered reading about a wife divorcing her husband over his game addiction. Yes, computer games, not casino games.
In recent computer games development, MMORPG, Massive Multiplayer Online Role-Playing Games, have been gaining popularity within the gaming community.



As the themes in MMORPG are fantasy like, they allow people to leave the real world and enter a world filled with with dragons and sorcery. Each player takes on a character, and develop their character using a progression chart of experiential points which makes their character stronger and get better equipped with more powerful clothing and weapon. Advancement in the games are done mainly through combat and completing quest. More importantly, these games are never ending, their dungeons are ever new, their player levels are always increasing.

What is appealing and interesting about these MMORPGs are that it facilitate social interaction between players. Guilds and small raiding groups are formed to further facilitate the community bonding and also support the characters during their quests. These virtual relationships bonds the gaming community together and gamers treat each other like how they would treat their friends in real life even though they do not know or even see before the person hiding behind the character.

It is amazing that the hours spent on these games have been atrociously absurd. Gamers have morph in addicts after playing a week of game and this addiction is even worst than heroine because it is so subtle, it hooks you on gently, but whenever you want to off the computer, your mind will automatically reason with you: just a few more bars to completion of that level, let me just complete it and this goes on for hours and without knowing it, it is another day.
What is worst from this game addiction is that the real social life of these gamers suffers because of their long hours online, they are so lost in this virtual world that they cannot differentiate between what is real and virtual in their life. Many have lost their love ones, their jobs, health, real friends and many more, but they are still not quitting, or should i say, don’t see the need of quitting since all they have left is their virtual group of support.
Governments are starting to realize the detrimental effects these games have on the addicts and many countries have set up web addiction facilities, game detox center, boot camps to break addiction. Surfing online, there are many forums, guidebooks, etc to help quit the games.

On the other hand, because of these games, it allows those who are introverted by nature or lowly esteemed individuals take on a role they inner desire. However, i am not sure whether this virtual world is clouding their mind and because they are accomplishing their inner desires online, these people are remaining in this virtual world for majority of their life.
Personally, I have a friend who is very quiet, laid back and a lowly ranking clerk irl, however, in the gaming world, he is known as a fierce warrior who is clothed in expensive gears and a leader of 40 other guild members. He turned from one who does not have many friends to one who everyone wants to team up with just by the flick of a button. Naturally, he became one of those who eat, sleep and game. Looks wise, friendship wise, he suffers, but he is still not giving his games up.
These addicts set me to think, is it really worth it to give up your real life relationship for a virtual one? Will these virtual ones last you a life time and be there for you when you are old?
PS to gamers’ friends: Never tell your gamer friends they are addicted, they will never believe so until they step into the non gamers shoes.
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